Barefoot - my mom is going through the same thing, my brother's wife is a #@!%^$. She has done everything she can to keep my baby brother and thier kids from his "other" family incuding his son from a prior relationship. While bro is responsible for half of the family issues that have come up. this vile creature will NEVER EVER be forgiven for what she has done to my mother. she is a snake... and shame on her for allowing, and pushing my ding dong brother to behave the way he does to his mother.
another disclaimer.. i rag about my MIL but that is my husbands mother and his relationship with her is NONE of my business. she can treat me like crap all she wants but that is her baby boy i am married to and i respect the witch's right when it comes to my husband.....ouch did i just say that? I let hubby figure out her insanity all on his own. That is why i come here.