I'm sorry, Gut, for the hurtful comments your mom made. I agree with Famita, though, that sometimes as we age we have more and more unfiltered moments. I see it time and time again, with my 86 y.o. dad. It's caused a lot of friction over the last decade, but those who know me, know I rarely hold my tongue. I'd definitely discuss this with her and let her know it was inappropriate for her to talk about you to this gentleman and also, to let her know how much it hurt you.