I think the TWOP folks will fold right in, as long as they stick by the PG13 language restriction. Our Mods are great, but they don't get pissed off if I, by way of example, start a reply in RHOOC as "Ummm, is Vicki off her rocker?!?!" then back that up by ways Vicki is, in fact, off her rocker. There was a certain TWOP mod that would ban a poster for the "umm" alone and he's getting crap over at his new digs for it. The Mods and FAs here are smart and recognize the difference from an attack on a poster and a comment on the show we're commenting on.
Norw, did she give a reason for bailing? I'll admit I'll cancel on plans at the last minute if there's a big rain storm because I HATE driving in a downpour (too many near misses makes me a very anxious driver in rain storms). But you don't strike me the type to be perturbed if there was a good reason for cancelling plans.