You've all helped me so much. I can't express how much it's appreciated. She's seeing a therapist today to help her deal with this. She decided to go after she dropped to her knees and begged him not to leave her . I was so dang mad when she told me that. I wanted to yell at her but instead I suggested she go speak to somebody.
I can't even imagine how my baby girl feels. I can't eat or sleep and I'm constantly crying so I can only imagine the pain she must be feeling. It kills me that I can't make her feel better.
I want to go off on him sooooo bad but nobody will give me his new number. I swear, if I was more mobile, I'd go sit at his work and wait for him. I need to tell him how much I hate him but I know that will just make it worse. I need to make it better for her, not worse but I need to go off on him for my own peace of mind.
Amanda had a boyfriend in her late teens, early 20s, who I named the loser. He did such a number on her self esteem. I never liked him but didn't know the extent of his emotional abuse until it was long over. After the loser, her self esteem was almost gone. Her husband took the rest of it.
She's a great person. I don't just say this because I'm her mom, I know its cliche but Amanda would give you the shirt off her back. If you needed a dollar and she only had 50 cents, she would find you the other 50 cents. She doesn't deserve this. No woman does.