48 years, AZChristian! How marvelous!
We don't go out to dinner, either; I prefer cooking something special for dinner on Valentine's Day. Hubby will get a card and a box of Russell Stover nut and chewy chocolates. Sometimes I switch it up and get him butter toffee, which he loves. I give my one son who still lives at home a box of chocolates too. No grandchildren yet to pamper. Hubby will either get me chocolates or flowers and definitely a card. I am a big card person and early on I let him know that I don't care about a gift but I really like to receive cards.
Most holidays these days are too commercialized but it's nice to be remembered with a token, I would think.