I'm late weighing in but hope everything goes smoothly, Gut. Your guests are in for a treat with the wonderful menu your daughter is preparing.
The last party I attended was at Halloween. We are games people and had a great time playing Pictionary (using a dry erase board propped up with special Halloween themed expressions to draw) as well as Charades. I have to say the women were a little more into it then the men, but we pitted men against women and then the competitive streak came out and the men started to have fun.