If it's an old friend I believe she will understand if you just kindly tell her some version of the truth. Skip the part about the needles in your eyes though.Originally Posted by prhoshay;4041460;
I do think the "I'm honored that you asked me, but I don't do weddings." suggestion would work or perhaps telling her that you would be uncomfortable in a major and visible role. Offer to do something else. Perhaps you can decorate the car while the ceremony is going on, or address invitations or help her write thank you's later. Any way you feel you could participate as a friend and/or take care of a wedding related chore for her without being directly involved would be great.