Ellen, thanks, your post was so funny. Wonder if I could ship SIL off to China.
Well everyone else is happy for my daughter, she's the only holdout, so I told my daughter not to worry about it. When my daughter was small, she and this aunt were very close and it's hurt my daughter immensly over the years that this aunt became so strange. Ah well, family. At least I don't have to see her but apparantly once every 3 years or so.
Thanks all, I know I did the right thing too about the friend. Not going to answer and told my husband not to answer the phone when I'm asleep anymore either.