I'm one of those who uses her cell phone sparingly. At home. I take it in the car but leave the ringer on vibrate. Then when I get to my stop before leaving the car I look at my messages. Then when I'm visiting, I don't use the phone. If I had a friend do that to me, I don't think I'd go out to eat with them any more. I'd have been upset if I'd not seen them for a while. Maybe next time I'd just do a phone call!