Unfortunately I think you feel threatened because she is a threat, at least as far as his feelings are concerned. Sadly there is no hard and fast way to deal with a partner developing a crush on someone else. During my long relationship with Mr. Rattus, there have been occasions where he's gotten a little goofy about someone else and I've dealt with it by continuing to be my usual pleasant self but stepping up the ... physical aspect of things a tad. He's dealt with my crushes by paying a bit more attention to me. Nice, flower-buying attention, not "we need to go to Home Despot on Saturday" attention. And when I say the attention either way is upped just a bit, I mean just a bit. Otherwise it comes across too needy.Originally Posted by Shaybo
Good luck with this. I hope he discovers soon that she picks her nose, clips her toenails in public and steals raisins from the grocery store.