Wow! Lucy, lambikins, phat, scarlett, broadway, ADK, you guys give GREAT advice. Jahim, I think you should follow their suggestions.....very sound advice. I know where I'm going the next time I'm in need of advice.....you guys are kind-hearted, sweet and very level headed. What wonderful posts. Again, let me just say, Wow.
J.D., I would be just as clumsy at dating as it sounds like you feel. Just remember, most things in life take practice, and try to consider your date one of the rehearsals for bigger and better things you'll be experiencing in the future.