Ack! That's a nasty situation!Originally Posted by Gutmutter
When I met my husband, he & I were both recuperating from very bad relationship experiences. For me, it was an ex-fiancee who turned into a video gaming couch potato and refused to look for a job. For him, his girlfriend was seeing other people but still expected him to live with her and take care of their child. Pretty messed up...
Funny thing was, neither of us was looking for a relationship. We became friends, and within a few months we realised we felt a lot more than friendship. So, we threw our caution out the window and took the plunge.
I really do think there's someone out there for everyone. It just might take a while, not to mention going through horrible relationships, to find them.