The only reason I'm not into calling guys right now is I used to when I was in college, and it always went well. I called my ex husband several times, in fact chased after him.
That was always something he brought up, "well you must have liked whatever it was I did, you always called" and a few other things that made me wonder if the relationship would have just quietly died, if I hadn't done a called him. Plus several people have noted to me since the divorce, I always seemed much more interested in him then he was in me.
Plus the fact, I'm not jumping on the phone to call this guy or checking out the personals too hard makes me think, dating is not a huge thing for me right now. I'm actually more interested in expanding my friends in the area or traveling to see the ones who live out of the area.