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    can i have your heart? unexplained's Avatar
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    I finally pluck the courage to talk to him because it's the last class today. We're going to have a break for 6 weeks of holidays here.

    I figured if I talk to him today, I'll either have 6 weeks to 'recover' if he rejects my acquaintance and see that the infatuation wasn't mutual, or more time to get to know each other without the constrains of class.


    Then, he didn't come today. Thus the wait continues....
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    aw, man, ue... that stinks! Now you have to wait 6 weeks??? *sigh*

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    Quote Originally Posted by Duxxy
    All is not lost Speedy .. its not just firemen that women swoon for .. its just about any man in community service uniform. Mention that you belong to the Coast Guard and the women will fall at your feet just as quickly... as long as you aren't sporting that Frank Zappa look
    What about my Starfleet uniform? Will that work? I even have captain's pips...

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    Starfleet uniform...


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    Quote Originally Posted by Modesty
    Starfleet uniform...
    Oh, don't make me put on the Starfleet uniform, Modesty. The funny part is they think I'm kidding.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ineedalife
    I have a hypothetical question for the men....if you really like a girl (as opposed to just wanting a booty call) would you 1) call her frequently and ask her stuff like "when can I see you again?" 2) give her out of this world compliments and/or 3) ask serious questions about likes/dislikes and her views on relationship stuff? Are these tactics a disguise or for real?

    Just curious....I have my opinion, but I don't want to express it just yet.
    Hmm..It depends, I usually just let things progress on their own.

    A - is not my thing. In fact, I hate it when girls call everyday. Why can't we just catch up once a week? This of course does not count calls with a purpose such as meeting up or going out somewhere..just those calls where it gets so boring that there are long pauses. I don't see the point.

    B - The less frequent and the smaller the compliments the better imo.

    C - This one is weird, you obviously want to get to know the person better..but all in good time.

    So, if you are getting too much of A and B...probably just a disguise...C, however, is needed to get into conversations, but not too much. Everything should just come out in time.

    But yeah, just some of my ramblings.

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    My newest relationship problem.

    I have been seeing a married guy. (I know, I know, Shame on me.) We have been seeing each other for a few weeks now. His wife just filed for divorce beginning of last week. I have not heard from him since Thursday and we usually see each other a 2-3 times a week. I can't call him because he and his wife are still living in the same house. Should I just assume the worst or am I just being impatient?

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    Erin,

    One word: run.

    *not that I'm even remotely qualified to give relationship advice, but I was you once.
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    He may just be in shock cause SHE filed. and you should be too.
    at least the divorce is starting - I'd just sit tight and see how it all works out. If it was meant to be, now he is free to actually see you. If not, he's the scum of the earth and you are better off without him.

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