I'm a long time lurker but i've decided to come out of the shadows because you folks seem like you would be full of good advice for a relationship challenged individual like myself.
Here's my situation... Lately, I'd been kind of seeing this guy. Even though he treated me like crap, only agreeing to see me when it was good for him, never calling me back, etc, I was totally falling for him. Then I went to this New Years party that I knew he was going to, and that he knew I was going to. Low and behold he shows up with his girlfriend that I did not know existed. Apparently they'd been together the whole time we'd been seeing each other. I got the usual, "I'm sorry, we've been together a long time and its just complicated" and when I asked him why he didn't tell me before I had to witness them together he just said that it was too hard. Apparently she knew about me, I was just the only one out of the loop. Even though I hate the fact that I was "the other girl" and he's been nothing but horrible to me, I just can't shake the fact that I still like him and even though I KNOW he's completely wrong for me he's the only person I really want to be with right now. I think part of my problem is that usually it's me that blows off guys when i know they like me and having a guy blow me off isn't sitting right. Any advice on how to get over a guy that is obviously a jerk but you're oddly attracted to anyways?