Two to many I always say. My daughter is 13 and my son will be 12 in 2 weeks.
Don't get me wrong, I love my kids and I am a very good mother but...
I have been a single parent for 12 1/2 years with no help whatsoever from their father and my son has some mental health issues that are sometimes very difficult to deal with.
No need to throw a Summer pity party, I have done it so long that I have pretty much learned to deal with anything.
It will just be nice to have my own space and to be able to clean something and come back later to find it still clean! And to paint and landscape and all that other home stuff.