I have a small rant.
Normally I like this doctor. He is our head psychiatrist and we have worked well together. Monday, we had this long discussion about a hospital closing in Detroit and how we needed to handle this for our consumers. There is another hospital we never use but we may have to. He told me to go and check out about 7 things and stated "I don't they will have it, it won't work".
Well, to me, he told me to check this out. So, I start checking it out. I'm asking questions and looking into things. When asked, I tell people, "Dr so and so told me to check into this."
Friday...he comes into my office "I never told you to do this, I would never do that, I refuse to send anyone to that place." WHAT?!?!? We had a good 15 minute conversation about this and I listed what needed to be answered.
Turns out, he felt the conversation was about why we wouldn't use this hospital and he was giving the reasons. He felt he knew the answers. To me, it sounded like he was telling me to find out the answers. He kept bugging me all day about it. Finally I told him he was upsetting me and he could leave me alone or make me cry on my birthday.
Now...I have to wonder at next conversation and if I need to start asking "am I to actually do this or are you just talking?" I wasted a great deal of time on something I didn't need to.