Thanks for all the good wishes. We are all adjusting. Moms first weekend visit is coming up and I'm all in knots about that. I've already spoken to their other grandma and told her that I'm depending on her to make sure things are fine. She's become very humble to say the least. These are the people who insisted that my son was such a worthless, dead beat dad that he didn't deserve to even SEE his girls, much less participate in their lives. Well, now that he has stepped up to the plate that their daughter left abandoned on the table, their attitude has changed. She was also concerned that, now that my son has custody, he would make it difficult for them to see the girls. He has no intention of doing that. I was able to get a little dig in too when she said that they want to be able to see them. I told her that I would never keep the girls from them. Said that I know what it feels like to not be able to see my own grandchildren and I wouldn't be a part of doing that to anyone. She didn't have much to say after that. I guess it wasn't necessary for me to get that in, but it did make me feel better to say it.