WHAT A JERK! Kudos to you for sticking it out. Not all men are like that, so don't let one frog keep you from going back to the pond.
Next time ask for separate checks tho.
What amazes me is that a lot of men think that they ARE going to get Kate Moss from a dating service or the best one is the men that say: I'd love to go to a nudist colony. I guess they think that is where all the models hang out, but in truth, most nudists are just normal people with all the lumps and bumps that we all have hidden under our clothes.
I think women tend to be more realistic about expectations and some men just have unrealistic fantasies.
Good luck. And thanks for sharing.