Thanks cootie. My mom is now in the home but only wants to sleep. The hospital somehow failed to tell us that my mom has kidney failure. Everyone thus far has been great and last night her pull up was wet and my sister fell apart and went and talked to the nurse and they immediately cleaned her up and the aid reassured her it wouldn't happen again. I was there today and the head nurse talked to us and reiterated that to make sure we come to her with our concerns. We know a lot of people there and that has helped.