babs I've been there as I'm sure so many of us here have. If you didn't have a reason to look, you wouldn't. If he had nothing to hide, it wouldn't matter if you looked. I would confront him and be honest. Maybe it's something you can work out but don't let him turn it around on you. People have their right to privacy but that doesn't mean he has a right to fool around on you. Sure, maybe it's something innocent like the red-head suggestion. But if it is, then the confrontation will be a chance to grow your relationship rather than destroy it.