snarkattack, I think we at FoRT are the perfect melting pot of the world. I guess I've never considered the importance of my friend's sexuality. It isn't a concern of mine, and I bet there are others who don't care, either. I personally would revisit if my therapist was doing me any good. Maybe he/she was great for your OCD, but it might be time to move on and find another one. There are great support groups out there. It sometimes takes one step that turns out to be a giant leap. I hope you know that we are there for you!