Thanks everyone for the great advice. I still haven't talked to him about that kind of stuff. I've done a lot of research on the Internet about it. There's many reasons why I don't like strip clubs/porn. One, I feel that they are morally wrong because that's how I was raised. Secondly, I knew a girl who worked in one and she said that touching is allowed and touching is cheating. He did say that he wouldn't ever but I still don't like the idea of it, again it goes back to my first reason for disliking it. Thirdly, I think it's a temptation. It's one hop, skip, jump away from cheating. If they are presented with the idea, then why not enjoy themselves. Furthermore, I do feel like I'm being cheated on for some reason. Just the thought of him getting some kick out of seeing someone else naked kind of frustrates me.
It's not that I am threatened by strippers' looks and that they might be prettier than me. I know my boyfriend is very picky and he thinks I'm gorgeous. I am happy with myself as well (not conceited).
I know that he has high morals as well but I am very conservative. I have made the personal decision to wait until marriage and it kind of feels like a punch in the gut.
I haven't spoken to him again about it yet but I will keep yall posted. Thanks again!