Oh burntbrat, I know your post wasn't intended to make me laugh, but I couldn't help it. How does that saying go? When a man takes care of the children, he's a hero. When a woman takes care of her children, no one really cares because that's what she's supposed to do. You're a good wife and mom; and your husband is a good husband and dad--he just can't handle the super woman duties you do on a daily basis!
SuperBrat, I'm really sorry to hear about your grandma.
As for me, my cold has a new friend. It's called a urinary tract infection. Oh, such joy in my life!