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    Just a quick question? How would you know the librarian started a HORRIBLE rumor about you? I used the go the the library and only said hello, goodbye and wheres this book?
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    Quote Originally Posted by myrosiedog View Post
    That is a great idea! Don't lower yourself to her level. Take the high road and you will always know that YOU have done the right thing even if no one else knows about it. But doing to her what she did to you only makes it worse.
    And sometimes when you are nice to someone like that out of the blue, they are shocked into better behavior. Good luck
    I SO agree with this advice. By taking the high road, you will not be stooping to her level. Makes you the better person. Being nice to someone like this reminds me of the saying..about killing someone with kindness. It works.
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    Quote Originally Posted by myrosiedog View Post
    STars I am just dying to know what this is. And thank you. I hope I do get the cabbage patch.
    The cabbage patch is the simple dance where you put your hands together and move your arms around the top of your torso in a circular motion. I look a plum fool while I'm doing it, so I rarely ever do do it, unless I'm getting paid. You don't have to pay me, but it would be nice. I'm gonna try to find a video of someone doing the cabbage patch, so you can pretend it's me doing it.

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    I agree with the kindness part...it just confuses them. Actually, when I first started working, I was being treated horribly by an overworked doctor. She treated everyone badly, but I watched as she was swamped one night by all the admissions and wouldn't write an order for me. I went downstairs and bought her a muffin and a coffee while she was knee deep in charts. I set it beside her, and walked away. She was nice as pie to me after that.

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    Rumor explanation:

    I went on the library computer once because our's is broken. Anyways, the librarian, who shall be called Ms. Karice, was walking by, and I noticed her looking at my monitor (I was watching a clip from my show-America's Next Top Model.) Anyways, a few minutes later, the other librarian walked over and was like 'Ms. Karice notified me that you were watching porn" and I was like "WHAT!!! I was watching America's Next Top Model!" I showed him, and when he saw that there was nothing wrong, he walked away. Anyways, I was devastatedly angry, and that's when I went on the "I hate her" rant.

    Anyway, I think she's very out of it if she considers ANTM porn, and second of all: why didn't she deal with me herself?
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    ANTM Mega Fan, I don't think she was starting a rumour about you. In all honesty, I've opened the ANTM thread while on my lunch break a couple of times only to quickly minimize because the pictures of women in their underwear can be taken as porn at a quick glance, and I know that's what people would think I was viewing.

    As to why she didn't deal with you herself, I don't know. Perhaps it's policy at that particular library branch that a specific person deals with inappropriate computer usage, or perhaps she is seriously embarrassed by porn, as some people are. At any rate, it doesn't appear that rumourmongering has been going on.
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    I guess I was just looking for an excuse to hate her, because when I make up my mind about someone I don't change it.
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    Ah, so you are a teenager! Look for the good in her, Mega Fan! She may be bitter about something. Or she could just be a hateful bitch who you just need to avoid altogether.

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    Or, another explanation is that maybe she was just doing the job that she was being paid to do. Perhaps the "other" librarian is her superior and was supposed to handle such things. I hardly see this as a "rumor" unless she whispered it to half the library.
    Rules are supposed to be obeyed by all and that is no reason to hate someone. I can tell you that at my library, there is no skipping going on. Those folks run a tight ship and we are all grateful for that. My grandkids have known since they were two years old that you only talk or whateveer, when you're in story hour and following the storyteller's instructions.

    Maybe instead of sending you all to the library, you mom could take you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Muduh View Post
    Or, another explanation is that maybe she was just doing the job that she was being paid to do. Perhaps the "other" librarian is her superior and was supposed to handle such things. I hardly see this as a "rumor" unless she whispered it to half the library.
    Rules are supposed to be obeyed by all and that is no reason to hate someone. I can tell you that at my library, there is no skipping going on. Those folks run a tight ship and we are all grateful for that. My grandkids have known since they were two years old that you only talk or whateveer, when you're in story hour and following the storyteller's instructions.

    Maybe instead of sending you all to the library, you mom could take you.
    Muduh, I respect you, and please don't be offended, but nine times out of ten I've felt very attacked by you. I put out an idea and it's like "That's stupid." I'm very young and I don't know everything but I'm not the maggot that all of a sudden everyone is making me out to be.
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