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    I'm sorry your friend has disappointed you, JohnnyK. If I were a jeannie, I'd give you a sweet lady friend.

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    So, I still get angry out of the blue sometimes. And I try hard not to go on another outburst. But at the same time, it's not good keeping everything inside, is it?
    Maybe when I feel pissed I can just go ahead and write it out on something only I can see.

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    That is a good start by writing out your anger JohnnyK. That will help you to see if it is something that needs to be acted upon or if it was just your frustrations.
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    Re: Talk about your troubles

    Quote Originally Posted by JohnnyK View Post
    So, I still get angry out of the blue sometimes. And I try hard not to go on another outburst. But at the same time, it's not good keeping everything inside, is it?
    Maybe when I feel pissed I can just go ahead and write it out on something only I can see.
    I think your idea of writing it out is a good one. Write down your rant and then tear it into tiny pieces. That way you are both letting it out and letting it go.

    And remember, keeping rants and tantrums inside is what most people do every day. I think that is difficult or impossible for you to do right now but keeping those things from spilling out into undesirable behavior is how society functions.
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    Sometimes, at least for me, it also helps to look at my part in the situation (and there are always two parts to every situation). I can't control other people, how they think or what they do. I can only control how I react to it and my part in it. When I focus on my part and on working to clean up my side of the street, it becomes easier to deal with other people.
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    You just said a mouthful there! It's about looking into the mirror.
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    looking for some prayers Thurs am for my final surgery. First 2 went well and this will be the final one. Thanks in advance!

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    You've got it, famita. Sending up prayers for a successful surgery.

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    Thinking of you! Hope it goes well.
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    I wish you all the best in her upcoming surgery Famita. I'll be praying for you. Let us know how you are doing when you are able and feeling up to it. Take care.

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