Well, I'll tell you what. I don't presume to speak for anyone other than myself, but I've seen this sort of defeatist attitude turn itself into a self-fulfilling prophecy more than a few times. It's so easy to categorize people into these neat little groups, and when you can put the blame on all women for "not being interested in the nice guys", it just gives you an excuse to fail. Sorry, but that's the truth. There are as many women out there looking for a genuinely nice man as there are women who are supposedly attracted to the "bad boys". And to be honest, just the phrase "bad boys" makes my skin crawl. Not because I like vanilla, boring types, but because it's all so high school that I can barely see straight.Originally Posted by Puck
The fact of the matter is that some degree of confidence in who you are as a human being is hugely attractive to almost everyone. If you walk around throwing a constant pity party for yourself, why would anyone want to get involved with that? If you're the nice guy, be the nice guy. Be proud of being the nice guy, and don't bemoan that fact. You're digging your own grave with your current attitude, and I can pretty much guarantee that until you stop looking to place blame somewhere, you'll continue to be alone.
Of course, that's just my opinion. Do whatever feels right for you.