I'll send my mom in your direction, too!
I'm thinking of, and praying.
Thinking of all of you in your difficult times! Prayer works...God works.
Special prayers for Victor, Buglover and the entire family. :grouphug
Holding you both in my heart as we wait to hear. :grouphug
Just got a call from my daughter - her roommate's boyfriend, who pretty much lived in their dorm room, was killed in a car accident this morning. Both girls are in shock. It's my daughter's first time having to deal with this with someone her own age. Please keep these two girls in your prayers as they work through this grief. Thanks.
The death of a close friend, about my own age, when she was 21 is what started me on my long trek to personal insight/introspection that lasts me until this day. It, actually, proved to be very beneficial in understanding myself, and life.
Several years ago my oldest son lost his girlfriend when she was killed in a car accident. About 6 months after that happened, his life-long best friend was also killed in a car accident. Then a few months later, his roommate committed suicide. My son has not been the same since. Now, he seems to hold himself back. It's like he's afraid to love again, afraid to commit himself to anyone for fear that he may lose them. He is the most wonderful, kind, giving person I've ever met and it hurts me that he is cutting off a part of his life that could bring him so much happiness. I'm hoping that in time he will be able to work through this.
That's terrible, what happened to your son, Lil Bit. He might even want to talk to someone about it---that's a lot of blows to absorb, and his response is pretty understandable.
Really sorry to hear about your daughter's friend, Gut. Hope this is the only such situation they encounter for many years.
Bug, flowing healing thoughts and prayers your way!
Gut and Lil Bit, Sending peaceful thoughts and prayers your way. What horrible things to have to deal with.