I just had to bump this thread back up. Two weeks ago the love of my life dropped by my parents house just to say hello. I haven't seen or talked to him in at least 15 years. I think about him all the time and I knew he was married and had 3 kids but I never wanted to cause any problems for him by calling or writing him because I knew his wife absolutely does not want me around. Well guess what....he let my Mom, Dad and sister know that he is divorced and living fairly close by. His parents live about 3 miles from my parents and he was on the way to their house and had to pass by my parents, so he stopped. When my sister called my house to ask "Guess who just left here"?, I immediately thought of him. Why??? Mom and Dad both said he asked about me and he looks much the same as he always did, maybe with a little less hair in back! And now all I can do is think about him....even through work, home life, all of life's errands....I can't stop thinking about him. His mother has written me several times over the years and always says "call or come by anytime, we miss you". I have always been afraid to, but should I do it now? I am a married woman! Not always happily...but still married. I have a child. We were not only boyfriend/girlfriend for several years, we were good friends too and I have missed him. If there was any (living) person I could re-unite with, it would be him.