ClaraBella, I can only agree with what has already been said above. Those ppl are cowards with some anger problems; you don't need that! I'd also recommend to do what Sher did, dive in to this friendly board - whenever you feel the urge to go and lurk at the other place, come here instead, and read and post away!
And please don't hesitate venting here if you feel the need!
I consider this place one of the few safe havens in the world of evil boards - not to mention that it is fun too!