Okay need some opinions here. I have a brother in law who's 38, he's been divorced twice and had to evict his last girlfriend out of his house. Needless to say he doesn't make the wisest choices when it comes to women. After the eviction incident I told him I was going to start screening any future girlfriends, he agreed. He actually has been dating around for the first time in his life and not tying himself down to one woman. He introduced us (hubby and I) to one lady and she was perfectly nice, didn't see too much wrong with her but that was the one and only time we saw her. We go to dinner for a friend's birthday a few weeks ago and he is there with a new "girl" she is 24!!! Now before all of you say that you and your significant other are X number of years apart, re-read the beginning of my post. I really don't think he's thinking with the right brain if you know what I mean. For crying out loud he has a son that's only 6 years younger than her! I told him I thought she was too young and he says he gave her every opportunity to get out of it but she still wants to date him. That raises another question, what does a 24 year old want with a 38 year old? I should add that he's a firefighter, I'm pretty sure she just wants to be able to say she's going out with a firefighter. Ah well, one of these days he'll learn right? lol!