I apologize in advance if you object to this sort of thing, but I'm desperate for some outside perspective.
About 7 years ago, I was raped by a guy my friend was 'dating'. My friend was there when it happened, but unfortunately she was asleep in another room. Since she wasn't very serious with the guy at the time, by his choice, she was very upset with me and not at all supportive. Her first instinct was, "you should never have been alone with him in the first place". I didn't press charges, but have done my best to stay far, far away from him. Needless to say, it didn't work out with those two, but sadly, that was more his decision than hers. She never really believed me that it was rape and I've never been sure why.
My friend and I was estranged for a couple years due to that and a couple other things, but we both gotten over it and she is a very good friend. Usually. My best friend in the whole world and we get along great.
This weekend, we were out and ran into this guy in question. She immediately went to his side and stayed there all night. I was very traumatized just seeing him and kind of stayed away waiting for her to leave. She didn't. On two separate occasions I asked if she was going to be much longer, (avoiding him at all costs) and she continued to stay there with him. I was getting the impression she wanted to leave with him and I just about lost it. I went outside, called my sister and had her pick me up. My friend knew I was upset, was my ride, and made NO attempt whatsoever to see if I was okay or address the issue at all.
We've never really came to a resolution about this. She chooses to ignore what happened or label me a liar, I'm not sure. I'm not sure that I can continue being friends with her after this incident, but I don't want to throw the friendship away. I've temporarily blocked her on MSN and she hasn't called me to see if I'm okay or even got home okay. She hates confrontation, so I'm sure she just is hoping that in a couple days I'll get over it.
Do I just walk away from this friendship? I hate for this loser to be the reason, yet again, but I'm just not sure I can forgive her. Am I being unreasonable?