I, too, am late coming to this thread, but I wanted to pass along my sympathy to both of you (Ducky and MissF). As for your so-called "friend," MissF, what kind of friend would act like she did? That is not a true friend IMHO. I think you'd be best to just move on and forget about her as a friend. I'm not saying be an outright bitch to her when you see her or anything like that (although if I were in your shoes, I probably would be...), but if your paths cross, just be cordial and nothing else.