I need to clarify that we are dealing with some things that have happened to our family and can't agree on how best to handle these things. We always tend to have differing opinions on matters and can either reach a compromise or agree to disagree. That's not the case here. It's frustrating because it is a serious situation and I wish we could pull together rather than apart. I don't think our marriage is in trouble over this. Hopefully, things can be resolved before that happens. We faced some pretty rocky times a few years ago. Our marriage nearly ended then and we bounced back. So, surely this is will work out! I just needed to vent a little and had no where else to go! Thanks canuckinchile and those of you who PMed me.