I am soooo happy for you! I don't think you need to do anything special except now you're able to show her love. It's a blessing that her big sister is there to help ease the transition, too. I don't know if I wouldn't cover my behind and somehow tape when a child spouts off something negative that was said in the other household. Don't comment on it when the kiddies are there, but just tape and file it away. You never know.