I was thinking about family and mostly my grandmother and a repressed memory came to me ( )
A family gathering.. in my grandparent's kitchen. I'm being grilled my my grandmother, aunt, uncle and my dad. (I was about 22)
them:So, are you seeing anyone?
me: I have a friend but its nothing serious (my husband )
them: when are you going to get married and have kids?
me: IF I ever get married I will let you know and I'm not having kids.
my dear grandmother: not having kids? well, who would want you then.
Thanks grandma, for pulling the evolution of women back to walking incubators. I remember I was miffed at the time, now I laugh.
I think my response was : someone worthy of me with the same goals and ambitions.
some people :rolleyes