But you are not being selfish. If you don't want kids, that's just how you feel and more power to you for not giving in just because some boneheads won't take you at your word. I can never figure out why someone who doesn't want to have kids would be considered selfish, I don't want a darn parrot and I won't ever have one because they are loud, smell and take up to much room but I don't consider myself selfish because of this (my 9 year old is disappointed in me but shoot I have enough pets)Originally Posted by tracylee