Grant, you are an educated and VERY pretty girl with a great smile!!! So what's up with you? I wouldn't mind being in your position. You probably have these guys probably following you like puppies. Sweetie, open yourself up to a relationship. You deserve to be in one where he (singular ) can be good to you! Don't stress the word relationship. If you feel that you are trying too hard, then that might be what is turning you off. Don't try so hard to please everyone and relax a bit. Your next relationship doesn't have to lead to marriage either, so enjoy the smooth sailing and learn from the rough waters. Just MHO.