I have a dilema here that I'm not too sure what to do about. My brothers-in-law each have a child getting married on the same day at practically the same time. One is about 20 miles away and the other about 40. The receptions are within about a 15 minute drive of each other. We can make an appearance at both, but here's the big problem (at least to me) one sent an invitation to Mr. Gracie and guest, the other sent to Mr. and Mrs. Gracie and family. I don't know about you, but I think after being married 35 years, someone should remember who I am. I don't want to go to the one that didn't know who I am, but Mr. Gracie does. What do you think would be the thing to do? I'm really torn on the matter and the reply cards have to be sent by next week.