Thanks so much for your kind words of wisdom. It is just going to be such a hard holiday season for all of us. She told me all she is going to do is cry all day, and I told her that was O.K. - we could all just cry together! Who knows . . . it's so hard to know . . .but I do like the idea of taking something over to her.
I have visited the Thanksgiving FORT dinner in General Discussion and have been amazed at all the wonderful recipes!
TPBM has contributed to the recipes there.