I had to. Long story short - ready to start law school, was assaulted, received some neurological damage and *poof* change of plans. I'm okay with it now - everything happens for a reason.
Did you ever find something positive out about your child that really surprised you? (I was at granddaughter's birthday party tonight - kids were dancing around, and my daughter breaks into a perfect moonwalk across the room! Where did that come from?? )