I Prefer..

listening
I prefer one good confidant to having man friends im not that close to

me too
I prefer my cats to some people.

i prefer my dogs to some people..so i know exactly what you mean. :)
I prefer pools to ponds

neither really..

I prefer being who i am (and having people hate me) or being what other people want me to be

being who i am..definitely.
I prefer "listeners" to chatty people who talk on and on.

I don't mind peolpe who talk on. I am not one to start up a conversation, I am a good listener though.

I Prefer eating spicy food to cold food (i.e. salads)

spicy foods :)
I prefer mild salsa to hot salsa

no, i like mine hot hot HOT :lol

I prefer white bread then whole-wheat bread

Oh yeah me too. But I eat whole wheat because it's better for me.

I prefer Chicken McNuggets to a Big Mac! He he.

Chicken McNuggets. I want four chicken mcnuggets.

I prefer honey as a sauce to bbq sauce