Just one little bolster pillow (those little japanese rolls). Yep, I'm weird. But I've got really long hair, and I like to hang it over them, and they're good for your posture.
I prefer independent thinkers to momma's boys, (but, every man should love his mother, too. Just not be afraid of her or afraid of thinking differently from her. Heck, my mom is sweet, I'm not afraid of her! She doesn't give me reason to be! If you're afraid of your mom, something's not right in that relationship! )