My niece had both white and chocolate cupcakes at her wedding last spring. The display was really pretty and the cupcakes were delicious, plus it was so much easier dealing with the leftovers. They also had a small cake for them to cut together, the size of what would be the top tier of a normal wedding cake. She also had some really good ideas for entertaining all the kids during her reception. They had a big table set up in the back of the reception hall with all kinds of crafts to keep them busy, plus they gave out goodie bags to all the kids that included some fun little toys. After they threw the bouquet and garter, they had a candy toss and the kids kept whatever they could pick up. It was a lot of fun.