I learned that diabetes is ridiculously widespread....more so than one might think...and that even skinny people can have the disease....in my opinion, it starts out as a malfunction, and transitions to various diseases. Giving people hell won't help them, just like giving them hell about their lack of weight loss won't help. Actually, it's just mean. They don't want this problem; they need positive support. It's just wrong to assume that it's all their fault. Some peple's bodies are just faulty, by genetics, but there are ways that people can care for themselves better. Let's encourage them instead of discourage them.