I also feel for Sandra and for the kids involved. I'm so tired of women who claim that they didn't know a man was married. let's face it, a lot of women don't care these days-whether a man is spread across the tabloid sheets with his wife or if he's simply the average joe who doesn't bother to take off his ring, some women simply are too accessible. So let me get this straight, she's saying she went into his office and asked one whole question before she found it okay to sleep with a man she'd known for less than a day? CLASSY!
In the paper today they spoke with a family friend, who said that Sandra truly trusted her husband although he was always surrounded by women throwing themselves at him. Hopefully he hasn't totally damaged her and she won't bring a complete lack of trust into her next relationship. If she chooses to stay you can bet he'll have to spend a lot of years getting that trust level back, and still it will probably never be the same. A true case of "you don't know what you've got 'til it's gone". Sad.