I also don't agree with this bolded part from imissme:
It's not beyond me to understand this.What a piece of crap this guy is, and how a woman who appears to have so much together in her business life can make such a poor decision when it comes to whom to marry, is beyond me.
Women (heck, men as well, of course) can make such decisions because they believe in the other person and love them. And if that other person deceives and betrays them, it is that OTHER person's fault. Maybe in hindsight, which is 20/20, it looks like a poor decision now. But at the time, it seemed like a good decision (even knowing there was an inherent risk, which there is with everything and everyone).