Why do we spend so much time judging people that we don't know? We all judge ourselves harshly enough. I'm with you, ATV; we put our trust in our own experts. Snapshot moments are not necessarily life shots; they tend to be momentary. Like sound-bites. If your children are clean, healthy, fed, and happy....you must be doing something right. It's not anyone's business to agree or not with how you are achieving that......it's obviously working.
It's easier to tell when things are going wrong.