I just feel sorry for Emily and for Jef. By all accounts, Jef is a good guy and if she did cheat on him or do whatever the articles claim she did, then she blew it. Plus, there's one more man she's brought into her daughter's life that will be gone. There are very few of these breakup stories that I take joy from, especially when there's a child involved. If the stories are true, then Jef isn't the one who needs to grow up.