I understood the "your" was general. I just believe that if we make it acceptable to make sweeping judgement about parenting skills based on limited information, then those judgements should apply to all. In this case, I'd be very upset if such negative assumptions were made about parents and their children if it was me, or anyone else. We know nothing about North other than that she wears some expensive clothes, and had a huge first birthday party. From that, I think it's stretching too far to imply she doesn't know she's important to her parents.